Ok, so I'm not Helen Reddy or whoever sang that song.
I am feeling better about the parent situation thanks to alot of
kind words and support reminding me how strong I really am.
If my parents can't deal with strong, positive people then maybe I don't
really need them in my life.
My hubby has been so supportive with the parent situation since the day we met
and he married me anyway. LOL My family is bizarre to say the least and quite selfish.
My therapist referred to them as narcissistic.
I got lots of hugs from my hubby and my dogs ( including Mud Puppy without the mud ) and I feel better about the situation.
So, I now I really need your help. We nicknamed Ripley "Mud Puppy" after his adventure in
the mud but I need a nickname for Noelle ( besides Bonehead). She is the jealous type so I have to think of something. Maybe I will call her my "snuggi" ( after that blanket with arms)
Have a great everyday. Smile often. It makes people think you are up to something. LOL
Cathy
www.TheMSShoppe.com
Dont' forget my special price on " I do the MSWalk everyday" shirts.
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Family
Recently I have reconnected with two cousins I don't think I have seen since I was about 3 years old.
One of them I emailed from time to time and both of them have exchanged holiday cards for a few years.
We reconnected on Facebook. My cousin on the other side "friended me" and I finally got around to answering it. It's been alot of fun getting to know everybody again.
My family is so small and as many of you know, a bit dysfunctional.
I've realized in the past few years I can't or won't beg any family member to be a part of my life. I've been thru so much with my health and if they choose to ignore that, then so be it.
I have so many wonderful nurturing people in my life and they have replaced those that can't deal with my MS.
To quote myself and my shirt product line "I don't have cooties, I have MS" I am not contagious.
Last night as I was going to bed, my Blackberry indicated a message and although I was so tired I decided to check it.
It was a message that I had a donation to my MS Walk team. So, as tired as I was, I logged onto to our computer and found that my cousin and her husband had made a donation. I almost cried.
Thanks a bunch. you have no idea what that means to Mark and I.
It's not about the money but about the support. Something I can't seem to get from my immediate family and something I am often ashamed of.
I spoke to my sister the other day. I left her numerous messages pleading for her to return my call. I am being overwhelmed with collection calls for her and I just needed it to stop.
Sometimes it is hard to believe I came from the DNA as the rest of them.
My husband and I still joke I was swtiched at birth. I thank God everyday for his family. I wouldn't have made it this far without them, especially his mom.
After the events of this week, life reminds us how precious it is and short it is.
Thanks to all of you who have supported us and continue to support us. One of these days I will walk the MS Walk right beside my team. Mark my words !
Have a sunny day, no matter where you are !
Cathy
www.TheMSShoppe.com
Tell a friend !
One of them I emailed from time to time and both of them have exchanged holiday cards for a few years.
We reconnected on Facebook. My cousin on the other side "friended me" and I finally got around to answering it. It's been alot of fun getting to know everybody again.
My family is so small and as many of you know, a bit dysfunctional.
I've realized in the past few years I can't or won't beg any family member to be a part of my life. I've been thru so much with my health and if they choose to ignore that, then so be it.
I have so many wonderful nurturing people in my life and they have replaced those that can't deal with my MS.
To quote myself and my shirt product line "I don't have cooties, I have MS" I am not contagious.
Last night as I was going to bed, my Blackberry indicated a message and although I was so tired I decided to check it.
It was a message that I had a donation to my MS Walk team. So, as tired as I was, I logged onto to our computer and found that my cousin and her husband had made a donation. I almost cried.
Thanks a bunch. you have no idea what that means to Mark and I.
It's not about the money but about the support. Something I can't seem to get from my immediate family and something I am often ashamed of.
I spoke to my sister the other day. I left her numerous messages pleading for her to return my call. I am being overwhelmed with collection calls for her and I just needed it to stop.
Sometimes it is hard to believe I came from the DNA as the rest of them.
My husband and I still joke I was swtiched at birth. I thank God everyday for his family. I wouldn't have made it this far without them, especially his mom.
After the events of this week, life reminds us how precious it is and short it is.
Thanks to all of you who have supported us and continue to support us. One of these days I will walk the MS Walk right beside my team. Mark my words !
Have a sunny day, no matter where you are !
Cathy
www.TheMSShoppe.com
Tell a friend !
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